Facebook threads in our town heat up fast. Every day, Christians in Mill City post online—some comments honor God, others don’t. Jesus already showed us how to answer those who attack us: love them. Still, I forget when a harsh reply flashes across my screen. Jesus said, “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44, NIV). He calls us to love even the ones who offend us. When I remember there’s a real person behind those words, I slow down before I type.

Here are the steps I take before responding:

1. Pray Before You Post
   Before I hit reply, I pray. I forgive that person and ask God to bless them. “But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you” (Luke 6:27–28, NIV). God wants prayer and blessing even for online opposition. Prayer turns anger into compassion before I type a word.
2. Respond With Love
   The urge to fire back is strong. Jesus said, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21, NIV). Good speech must answer evil speech. I post something kind or share a verse. I thank the person who challenged me. This is not a weakness. It is obedience. “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up” (Ephesians 4:29, NIV). God wants words that help, not hurt.
3. Set Wise Boundaries
   Not every argument deserves an answer. When a thread turns toxic, I step away. God said, “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath” (Romans 12:19, NIV). God judges better than we do. Walking away shows trust, not defeat.
4. Lead a Grace-Filled Group
   When I comment on social media, I try to set a godly tone. I thank people who bring peace and reach out privately to calm tension. “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians 4:6, NIV). Grace in speech helps you answer anyone. When we model patience, online spaces feel peaceful instead of bitter.

Loving enemies online takes prayer and restraint. It reveals who we follow more than any post can. The next time a comment sparks your temper, ask: “Am I winning an argument or reflecting Jesus?” Pray, then post.